How do we distinguish between self-doubt that holds us back and the discomfort that comes with growth?

The July’s Women Emerging Community Event brought together women from across geographies, generations, sectors and specialisms to explore this question that sits beneath many experiences of leading.

Drawing on the lived experiences of the panellists and the reflections shared by participants, the conversation explored how self-doubt can show up in different ways. Rather than viewing every moment of uncertainty as evidence that we do not belong, the discussion invited participants to consider that some discomfort is a natural part of growth and taking on new challenges.

A recurring theme throughout the event was courage. The panellists reflected that courage looks different for everyone. For some, it comes from spending time in nature. For others, it comes from trusted relationships, moments of quiet self-reflection, or reminding themselves why they are in the room.

One story by Dr Vongai that particularly resonated was about taking a moment before walking into an unfamiliar space to look in the mirror and remember: “You were invited here for a reason. Who cares what the reason is? I’m going to do the best I possibly can.”