What a great list, Harriet! I can’t agree more! Especially I very much liked your points on looking at mentor-mentee relationship from a long term perspective and that it needs to be two-way, not imposed by the mentor. These resonate with me deeply!
In my own path, as both a mentor and mentee, I’ve learned that:
1- Trust and reciprocity are the foundation of the relationship.
2- The best mentors guide without shaping you in their image. (Believe me I’ve seen people trying to impose their world view and perceptions on you, which is a big shame and disappointment!)
3- Great mentees are those who bring curiosity and commitment to the table.
4- I see mentorship as a long game of mutual growth, not a transactional relation.
It can be so transformative when it’s built with clarity and care.
