Reply To: How I negotiate as a woman and get what I ask for?

Thank you so, so much — your words truly touched me. I’m really moved to hear that you were reading with your expedition journal beside you; that means a lot. And yes, I relate so much to what you shared about softening our words before we even speak. I’ve found myself using those same disclaimers too in the past: “This might sound silly…” or “Sorry, just a quick thought…” — especially in rooms where I felt I needed to earn the space before I could own it.
Over time, I’ve tried to shift that by pausing, breathing, and grounding myself in intention before I speak. I ask: What am I truly feeling? What do I want to communicate? That helps me show up with both clarity and care — to speak honestly, but in a way that still leaves space for connection.
It’s definitely a work in progress — but like you said, words carry weight. And choosing them with presence can be a quiet kind of power.
I’m really glad this post sparked something for you. Thank you for bringing your voice to this conversation. 💛